For some it is relatively easy to find a boyfriend….but keeping him is another matter!
Before you have a boyfriend you imagine the way you would be with him. Never arguing and looking perfect at all times.The reality of it is that is not going to happen!
Life as a couple is far from perfect and people do find it hard to stay together for the distance. But being there for your boyfriend is a lot easier than you think! Its not so much looking ‘perfect’ all the time or never having an argument.It is understanding that sometimes you will argue and knowing that you will get through it.That is the key to lasting.
So many women get confused and think their boyfriend doesn’t want to be with them anymore when they go through bad times. But NO man will be in a relationship that they DON’T want to be in. If women were confident in that fact a lot of relationships would be saved!
Let’s also talk about other woman around your boyfriend or if your boyfriend goes out clubbing with his friends. The worse thing thing you can do is act jealous. It is only natural to feel jealousy but to control it in a relationship will do wonders. People want what they can’t have so if you make it obvious that you don’t like your boyfriend chatting to other attractive females then it will only make it a problem. If you don’t care then the likelihood of it is, they will never be a problem. If you get paranoid before your boyfriend goes on a night out and even ask him not to go the relationship will end or become one where he will have to lie to you. Treat him how you would like to be treated. If you like going out with your friends and getting dressed up just to have a nice time. Then why shouldn’t he be able to do the same!
If you treat your boyfriend how you would like to be treated then your relationship will go along way.